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Being Non-Conformist


I’ll say it real plain… Jesus would be asked to step down from ministry today in many places simply because He was being Jesus. Although many people began to flock after Jesus, even into desolate places, many also ended up turning away because He wasn’t trying to impress them and He wasn’t trying to “dumb down” His message so that no one would misunderstand Him.

He walks out into a spontaneous mass gathering of people who are there to hear Him and see what He does. He screams out with boldness, passion, and conviction, “Eat my flesh, drink my blood!” He knew He was declaring what He heard in Spirit, and He went full-on with it. That’s the Jeremy Caris “Jesus was hardcore” version of the story. I just don’t think He was like little miss muffet sitting on a tuffet and on a lovely hillside talking in a soft voice that everyone could magically hear.

While He’s watching people walk away in disgust and confusion, talking to reporters and journalists on the way out, He’s not panicking about the fact that He just lost financial support, popularity, and may end up on the news channel tomorrow morning. His faith wasn’t in His ability to manipulate the fickleness of people, coerce followers, or his ability to deflect every question and accusation with an answer that’s not an answer. Instead, He turns around from those walking away, and with a glint in His eye, He asks the twelve disciples if they want to go ahead and make a clean break as well.

Apparently Jesus wasn’t interested in taking advantage of people in ways that we commonly think would be for a greater good. Think about that, and let it sink in real deep.

We talk about being like Christ, until it comes to things like this… and then we just claim we don’t understand Him fully. And after all, we think, “we’re not Jesus so we shouldn’t presume to think we can act like that, especially when we don’t understand His actions.” But I am being fashioned into His likeness, I have the mind of Christ and the same Spirit that raised Him up. And I’ve been thinking about all of this because there is a part of me that absolutely cannot conform to what people want, expect, or demand just for those reasons.

I love the non-conformist side of the fully surrendered Son. Conformity to anyone above God alone is misplaced loyalty. As far as I’ve considered it, I cannot see how anyone surrendered to God can conform fully to the demands, pressures, or expectations of people, systems, or cultures. Jesus just didn’t. He participated, worked within, and celebrated them up to a point. But He would break all of that in a moment to decree clarity from Heaven.

Its time for those to rise up who will not be pressured into conformity—not pressured into the mold of whatever it is that everyone thinks works but isn’t producing anything in the likeness of the life of Christ Himself. Its time for the non-conformists to realize that they are not irrelevant.

If that’s you, the enemy may have reinforced the idea that you can’t mesh with people. But the reality is that you have the power to shift people. You have been misunderstood and mistrusted because you are not motivated by self, wealth, or power. And, frankly, most people don’t know how to deal with people like you. But if you learn to be you and do what you have been given the strength to do, you can influence a lot of people and give courage to others like you.

Jeremy Caris

Jeremy Caris is the founder and president of Caris Ministries. Since he is called as a prophet and gifted as a teacher, much of his focus involves equipping believers to hear, know, and follow God in their own daily experience. He teaches the foundational truth of the Word with simple clarity, while revealing deep things of the spirit in practical ways. He has the unique ability to demystify the supernatural side of real relationship with a living God and make it an embraceable and accessible reality for all believers. Jeremy has been married to his best friend, Mandy Caris, for twenty years, and is the proud father of two boys.

5 Responses to "Being Non-Conformist"
  1. Mr and Mrs Caris please pray for me. I found you while looking for biblical prophetic interpretations for dreams and visions I have. I read this piece on non-conforming and was so stirred. I was raised in the world and had no family or friends that walked with Jesus. Yet I always loved God (which I cannot fully understand why I would). I did not get saved in a church. I officially got born again at 20 in my living room in a tailor park of all places all alone. I believe I had heard a message on T.V. I can’t remember but I never forgot when Jesus touched me that night deep inside. Than I went to church. I was there 16yrs and got to witness many splits before it finally dissolved…just died. The last 8 yrs I have been living in the shadows…the outer limits so to speak and basically surviving on leftovers (old revelations about my God). I was so miserable I knew I can not live there. I just had to go back if I ever wanted to be used of God in a powerful way. All my dreams visions revelations I honestly thought were dead while sitting in the embers for 8 LONG years have become a wildfire within me. Today we became members of a new church that God supernaturally led my husband and I to. But during membership classes one of the pastors made mention of how they may open tithe and offering books to see who REALLY supports the ministry if they ever have any big decisions to make….they only want members who REALLY support the ministry. It did not “feel” right. Today after we were made official we received our (card) from the secretary with our own number to be placed on all the tithe and offering envelopes with our names. I could not help but bristle a bit. She explained it helps them with the accounting but I sensed MEASURING STICK! I am a cheerful giver and have to the best of my ability examined my own heart to see if I and being selfish in some way. It saddens me to no end to think that my love and support for a ministry could be measured by the amount and consistency I give monetarily. I am new and do not want to already be rocking the boat. I don’t know if I am a Prophetess but do know I am prophetic. I want to learn how to grow in my giftings. I feel that if I were to talk to the pastors about my concerns it would be viewed as a poverty mentality. Today was such a special day for me. I had obeyed and knew it was pleasing to God to once again be apart of His people but it was also overshadowed by the pressure to give. Please please remember me in your talks with God. From my experience in the 16years I sat in church….this is when most folks would murmur and complain to other within the church. I WILL NOT DO THAT! I am wrestling inside though because I do not believe Jesus worried about funds the way many ministries do. I know we must have money for ministry but what happened to believing that God knows as well and will provide? It is my belief that all ministers of God should be provided for with monies and shame on the people who rail against that but I do often feel that God word is being prostitutes for personal gain and His faithful suffer for it. Please give me advice if you have any. Thank you.

  2. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Many of us struggle with the same problem that you have, but few of us have the courage to admit it to ourselves or anyone else, as you have done. The Lord respects you courage.
    May God continue to provide, protect, and direct you.

  3. I just read Jeremy Caris statement on being a Non-Comformist wow did that ever resonate in me i totly agree.

  4. I have been increasingly becoming this way over the last year. My issue is that I’ve been growing increasingly impatient when it comes to talking theology with others who take a more ‘religious’ (legalistic) approach (basically almost everyone I go to church with lol). It has gotten to the point where it’s very difficult for me not to cop an attitude and simply state the facts of Grace when someone insists something that’s just not true, specifically in the areas of our identity and/or whether or not the law is applicable in the life of the Christian (just last Sunday at church, a friend insisted that the old man isn’t dead and that our behaviors absolutely play a role in our justification. The sad truth is that most of the church would agree with this, or at the very least they feel this way even if they don’t know how to articulate it). Basically, I couldn’t handle it, I told him, “That’s ridiculous. No offense, but it’s ridiculous to think that you’re some strange hybrid of both righteous and wicked, and even more ridiculous that you think Jesus’ works weren’t enough for you that you have to add to it. I’ve got to go, my family is waiting on me to go to lunch…” I didn’t get into an argument with him or anything. I’m just not interested in that. I simply got irritated, plainly stated the truth, and walked away. A couple of days later I heard John Crowder say something that was helpful. He expressed how he feels when he hears people talk like that and he will blast them (for lack of a better word… I don’t think he used the word blast though lol), and he said he knows the reason he feels so strongly about it is because that’s how Jesus feels about it, although he, unlike Jesus, struggles with knowing when to speak and when not to speak. That’s pretty much where I’m at. This blog post was also very helpful. I’m not trying to use it as an excuse to be rude to people, by any means, it’s just helping me understand why I’ve been feeling the way I’ve been feeling lately.

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